This morning, I happen to visit one of my Facebook friend’s profile. I can’t and won’t mention the name so let me name this person “CHOCO” (just a random name) 😂
Upon browsing Choco’s timeline, all I can see are rants about life, other people, and job. After reading, I thought that…he/she is not the person I thought he/she were.
Yeah, I was quite disappointed because Choco was very nice to me. In fact, we became quite close before. I know that I do not have the right to judge this person since we haven’t met in person and I do not really know much about Choco, but Choco’s posts reflect his/her personality. Therefore, I am judging Choco based on his/her timeline posts.
Scrolling down, reading more of Choco’s post, realization hit me. Some people, when they ask and pray for something and is not given to them, they become upset. But when given and granted, they start to COMPLAIN.
“Why like this? Why like that? I am tired of this! I can’t do it anymore! Give me a break!”
Then when they lose it, when it’s taken away, they blame Him or other people for their lost when in fact it was their fault!
Some people, REALLY, rather than show appreciation and gratitude on the blessings they were given, they take it for granted. And worse, do nothing but COMPLAIN.
How I wish I’d have the courage to share this thought with Choco. To tell him/her, “Will you please stop complaining? You’re already blessed for having what you have right now. Why? Because other people don’t. But you…you have it. So instead of ranting, complaining, and acting tardy, get up and work your ass off! If you can’t handle your duties and responsibilities, then just quit. There are many people out there who are far more deserving for the position you have right now.”
But based on his/her personality, based on his/her posts, I’m afraid I cannot tell him/her that. Choco has a habit of humiliating someone he/she is having an argument with. Yes, in public. 😂 So why bother? My intention is good. What would be for Choco? I will be a fool for trying.